Sandy and Lee J. co-authored her memoir that chronicles her struggles to overcome her painful shyness and high functioning anxiety as a child. Her suppression of many of her normal childhood emotions hid a persona deep within her psyche that only emerged after their marriage.

Their time in the Air Force as he became a fighter pilot and she served as an officer’s wife allowed her to discover the persona that she was completely unaware even existed. The emergence of the persona they named Alexandra coupled with their story of true love and devotion is an inspiring narrative.